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In my eBook, I have an entire section on fueling your mind for success- for now though, remember to do your BEST to adopt this frame of mind before you even leave your house.
There is another level to being prepared as well. When you meet a woman, you usually have to open your mouth and actually say something. And although with practice, you will get better, why not think about the random situations where you meet women, and write down some basic ideas of what you can say to her. Eventually, you will realize you don't need to do this, but in the beginning, it can help your confidence to actually have some idea of what you are going to say. So for example, if you are at the supermarket, and a woman is in front of you, or behind you, do you right now freeze up and have nothing to say? |
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We all do our best when it comes to confidence. Every day, if you just behave *normally,* you give off the level of confidence that you feel AT THAT MOMENT. Which means that your overall confidence is an average of the highs and lows of the day.
Or, more accurately, your confidence level is determined by the level of confidence you maintain MOST CONSISTENTLY. Following me? |
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